Thursday, December 29, 2005
1:38 PM
Read on....Long post....Pls bear with me...
I "kop-ped" this from Hisa's blog...Hur...pretty meaningful~i've bold the ones which meant something to me...Some of which i haven been able to do...
24 interludes of life
1. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile
2. There are moments in life when you really miss someone that you want to pick them up from your dreams and hug them. Hope you dream of that someone
3. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want in life
4. May you have...Enough happiness to make you sweet.Enough trials to make you strong.Enough sorrow to keep you human.Enough hope to make you happyAnd enough money to keep you comfortable.
5. When one door of happiness closes, another opens. But we often took so long at the closed door, that we don't see the one which has been opened for us
6. The best kind of friend is the one you could sit on a porch, swing with, never saying a word and then walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you've had
7. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives
8. Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably does hurt the person too
9. A careless word may kindle a strife;A cruel word may wreck a lifeA timely word may level stressA lovely word may heal and bless
10. The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves and not to twist them with our own image, otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them
11. The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along the way
12. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we should know how to be grateful for that gift
13. It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone
14. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. For only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives
15. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance and find out you still care for that person
16. A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go
17. Love starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear
18. Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, need to love those who still love, even though they've been hurt before
19. It hurts to love someone, and not to be loved in return but what is most painful is to love someone and never finds the courage to let the person know how you feel.
20. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches
21. Never say goodbye when you still want to try;Never give up when you still feel you can take it;Never say you don't love that person anymore when you can't let go
22. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back. Don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their hearts but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours
23. There are things you love to hear but you would never hear it from the person whom you would like to hear it from, but don't be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with his heart
24. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life to the fullest so that when you die, you're smiling and everyone around you is crying . .
I woke up finding that "Unbelievable" was still playin on my mp3 player. "Always said i would know where to find love, Always thought i'd be ready and strong enough. But sometimes i just felt i could give up, But you came and you changed my whole world now. I'm somewhere i've never been before,Now i see...What love means." Now now gurls, don't swoon when you hear this song. I remembered how mesmerised i was when i spun the CD on the player. Haix.
I'm not feeling down or anything but sometimes, questions i have on my mind seem to never be able to get answered. I've got friends around me who are so troubled by love sometimes it reminds me of how i was.
Just a few short msgs to these special ppl. My friends and those ppl involved, i'm sorry if i'm crude in my words. These come from the bottom of my heart. In these moment of time, i'm thinkin of how you ppl are, because you're my friends, i treasure you guys so i can't bear seeing you down.So it doesn't matter to me how you judge me with these words of mine. I do care.
Hisa:
Let him go. You know he ain't worth it after what he's done to you. It's difficult. I know. I've been through it and i understand the pain in you. Someone used to tell me "time heals all pain". However, i beg to differ. Time just allows you to look away from it temporarily if you're hurt so bad. You will find yourself falling all over for him as time passes , and begin thinkin to yourself what wrong av you done or what has gone wrong. It's pretty ironic huh? How you can still love someone so much even you hate him for what he's done. It's oh so natural. I'm not too sure about men, but i'm sure all ladies would agree with me. Like the story in your blog. God made women special.Tat's why we tear and look back on closed doors longer than men do. Qn yourself, why hold on to someone who doesn't even wanna allow you to have a place in his heart even as a plain platonic friend at the moment? Don't even think that he'll regret treatin you this way. He wants you to get over him so bad he doesn't even put yourself in your shoes when he speaks. I admit.. I helped him in ways to make you forget him. Perhaps, i've hurt you indirectly too.However, it's you now i simply care about. I hope you'll grow out of it. I won't always be here when you nid me, but be sure you're on my mind. And i hope he'll come to realise, one day, he must grow up, to learn what love really is.Only you will understand what i mean...i hope. *wink* You have someone right in front of you who cares..He'll make you who you really are...=p
Hakim:
Hey kims dude, i know it's hard goin through all these. You know, you always make me so speechless when you tell me what has happened. Seriously,i don't understand what's on her mind. Why did she let go such a guy like you. You told me a life without love is no life at all. YOu may not have her love, but you've got love from friends like me! We love you for who you are. Just like you said to me, Let go, the damage in your heart! =D We'll work it through together. I know it. Prata nxt time ok? =p
Daryl,Eugene:
Guys, i treat you like brothers, that's why i'm sayin this.
Daryl, you must seriously think about what you're lookin for. Sounds crude, but, you're entering JC soon, know what you really want in life and what type of girl you really want. You know how long your longest relationship has been...Be more sensitive about what you say in front of ppl, be more considerate and think about how ppl will feel about what you speak. You're a nice guy and i believe all of us know this. So don' waste it and turn ppl's impression of you upside down.
Eugene,we've been friends for so long, don't do things in a haste. I really appreciate the trust you've laid within me, telling me all what you've shared. However, girls may not be what they seem to be. Like i said, take things slow, you'll definitely find your special one...One who'll appreciate your passion and enthusiasm in love. Lol. However, one word of advice, not all girls are the same, don't tink they're all as easy to please, for they're not. Take things s-l-o-w-l-y, or your chances may slip you by....Maybe you think wat i saying are all rubbish, but i believe i understand gurls more than how your god bro does. Simply put, i'm a gurl too....Trust me. =)
Ace:
Hey~=) it was nice meeting up with you again. Bygones will be bygones...U've changed so much, sometimes i really don't know who you are anymore. Sometimes, i think i can't be myself when you're like tat now...But well, i guess it's because i've changed too.I'm sorry i said the "indecent" part thing to you..I guess i was too crude..I thank you for the comfort you gave me and all.Words can't describe how much you mean to me now as a friend who'll always be there when i need it. Really. You're important in my life as such a friend and i hope i am one like that to you too....Well, we've gone through so much and i really think, not one guy would be able to understand me like how you do. Well, i really hope you'll find "the One" soon. Your expectations are not very high except the " i know i've meet one when i noe she is the one" part. Lol. Well, i hope you do. And i know you will...Lookin forward to k-boxing!!! =)
Ching Wei:
Hey...silent reader...=) I've been wanting to meet up with you for lunch but to no avail...well, thnks for all the advices you gave...you made me grow up with your words.Really....Thank you. And i will remember our family we've formed in our hearts. =)
And yes, of course, not forgetting myself..
Rena:
The new year is arriving. I know you don't seem as excited like you make it out to be, ushering in the year in 2 days time....However, take Ching Wei's advice, make your resolutions soon and know what you want in life too...Most importantly, how to be you. You've lost all your identity over all past issues it's scaring ppl who loves you for who you really are. Be quick to gain back the actual you...You're lucky to have so many friends and family around you who cares. I'm proud of you for being able to take things till this stage...but know tat people around you do change.Don't assume things will always be how you think they will be and that they will always remain the same. Loads are on your mind, take your time to get your answers...However, be happy...on the inside. I know you don't cry on the outside anymore. But pls pls pls, don't suppress your feeling so much you break down in an instant when you can't control it any further. Don't weave back to the past you when some things happen and you feel it's the end of the world. No, for the world will never stop spinning.Cry when you want to, be upset when you are. Stop your pretence. Don't talk about wanting to end it all, because, life is short and beautiful. Love as many ppl around you as possible, because they're the ones who'll decide if your life is beautiful or not indirectly. =)
some hearts are meant to be broken;;
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